Larry Stone: A Year Later, Lessons

June 27, 2010
A TV Guide Collectors Edition cover from the 1997 season hangs in my office. It shows Steve McNair and Eddie George preparing for the teams arrival in the mid south. People pause when they see the photo and often the words, I cannot believe he is gone are uttered.
Indeed. Here we are: a year since McNair lost his life in downtown
So many stories of McNairs days with
The team returned home the following week to face
ODonnell led the Titans to a win over the Chiefs and Fisher remembered visiting a distraught McNair at the hospital after the game. McNair told Fisher he simply could not play any more the pressure of trying to live up to expectations had become too much for him, especially in the wake of the Titans magical Super Bowl run the previous season. Fisher said last July that he felt as though he had failed McNair because he had not prepared him for how his life would change after that Super Bowl appearance. McNairs star had arrived at sports highest level and he was not ready.
That part of the story came as news to me. You no doubt remember the rest of the story as McNair healed up but still sat out the next game at
Fisher said last July that he attempted to talk with McNair about his hospital confession in the aftermath of that win. Steve just winked and pointed to the sky, Fisher remembered. McNair had found peace.
For his part, McNair told Mike Keith in an interview two years ago that the
McNair told Keith he finally understood what it meant to be an NFL quarterback during the final moments of that game and from that point forward, he was a different quarterback.
The stats bare that out. Having thrown three interceptions in the first two game games, McNair would throw just three in the next seven games. After the
Did it all begin with the
Steve McNairs adopted son, Vince Young, seems to be at a similar crossroad in his life. On the field, Young did something many of us thought he could not last year when he rebounded from the personal embarrassment of the 2008 season. Like the man he called Pops, Young lie on the LP Field surface writhing in pain while fans roared for his backup. Like the man who befriended him during his high school days, Young asked questions about his future as an NFL quarterback following that
The question now: how does Vince Young follow it up? Does he take off? Does he learn from Mike Heimerdinger what it takes to be a more complete quarterback, just as McNair did in the early part of the last decade? Does he put the work in necessary? Does he become a leader on the football team, not with his heroics but with his heart and his soul the important stuff that becomes so readily apparent to members of a team? Does Vince Young do the things that leaders need to do a laugh at a crucial moment to take the edge off, a harsh word when a receiver needs it, a pat on the butt for the guy struggling in a game?
And off the field, does Young learn from Pops? Steve McNairs best statistical season came just months after a very public arrest for DUI in May, 2003. An embarrassed McNair answered the criticism publicly, dealt with the issue in an upfront matter, and channeled the disappointment over the situation he put himself in toward football.
Facing a similar type situation after his
Those close to Young know McNairs passing affected the former Texas Longhorns quarterback. The extent to which, probably will not be known for a long time maybe a sit down after his career will reveal Youngs inner thinking and feelings. Even more than McNair, Young has a shield around his feelings and thoughts no doubt born in the protection that such a high profile celebrity must build to keep out those wanting nothing more than to be a hanger-on. While McNair made headlines in college, he did so outside the media glare of the Big 12 and in a time, that even 15 years ago, is much different than todays media landscape.
But as we pause to think about Steve McNair and his family during this difficult time, we cannot help but reflect on one of the lessons McNair learned during his NFL career and whether that same lesson applies to his friend as a very important year in the business life of Vince Young approaches.
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